dear rabbi my mom passed away this year and i also just found out that i was adopted. i was never told anything by her but family members comfirmed this . i am confused and also have children who are confused. i need to know if my biological mom is jewish and i dont know where or whom to turn to for this info no one has any answers for me. im divorced and cant deal with this nighmare any longer. can you help me get my real life back on track for both my sake and especially my childrens sake. i have alot at stake right now both with my personal life and my kids future. i dont care if my biological mom wants a relationship with me or not i need to know my background and medical reasons also before it is to late. please help me in any way you can and please keep my name confidential thank you.