Interpersonal

שלום רב, המשפחה שלי חילוני, אבל אני רוצה ללמוד יותר על אורתודוקסיה. אמא שלי לא אוהבת שאני מעוניינת באורתודוקסיה ואני לא יודעת מה לעשות. יש לכם עצה? תודה רבה

My husband is a very observant Jew in every way, wearing a kippah, davening, putting on tefillin, kosher, shomer Shabbos, etc. But there is one exception. He ignores all mourning restrictions during the Omer and 3 weeks. He has a very disrespectful attitude about them, calling them BS. He even listened to music during the year after his father’s death before I knew him and has no remorse about it. He openly disdains these laws, listening to more music than normal during these times more openly and with no shame. He goes around saying “It’s not in the Torah. Hashem won’t punish me.” Worst of all, he listens to music when I am in the car with him, thereby forcing me to listen to it also. How do I deal with this?

What does Judaism teach about the importance of friendship as opposed to concentrating on living one’s own life “as an island”?

My husband refuses to see a doctor. What should I do?

Is there a prohibition in Halacha against being friends with an avowed antisemite? By that, I mean a person who has openly stated they hate or have negative feelings or beliefs about Jews and/or Israel. All despite their willingness to be friends with an individual Jew.