Masturbation
Question
I am a 14 year old girl. I didn't know about masterbation unitll i reserched on it. I read that its very healty to do it, can't harm you at all, and is normal.. So one day i tried putting my finger there and it felt really good to rub it. Then i had second thoughs on it because of judiusam. i read a point of view that was not judesam. So then i read about masterbation on jewish sights and i saw that BOYS were not permmited to masterbate. I then tried serching for if girls are not permitted by the torah. So the only answers i got were "the torah dosn't say that girls shouuldn't but they shouldn't" these answers don't make sence to me. i undestand that if i masterbatet too much i could get an obssesion with it, but if i do it once in a while.. is it a sin?