Question
Last year I got drunk one evening and had a fight with my then best friend while over her house. This escalated into further arguments in the coming days and we had a falling out. It’s a long story. She was so appalled she applied for a legal restraining order against me that was granted. The restraining orders forbids me to go near her or to contact her by any means, whether it be in-person, phone, mail, email, text, social media, or even a third party. If I do, I risk jail time. There is only one legal way I can contact her, and that is to send my desired communication to the overseeing judge, who in turn gets to decide whether or not to send the communication to her. These requests apparently can take weeks or months to be fulfilled from within the judge’s busy schedule, if they happen at all. As Yom Kippur is coming, I want to apologize for any wrongdoing and seek forgiveness from her. My only way legally to do that as I mentioned is through the judge. I sent a request to the judge around the beginning of Elul, thinking that was enough time, but so far have not heard back. I have repeatedly called the judge’s secretary, who keeps telling me he will get back to me when his schedule permits. The judge and secretary I am dealing with are both Jewish, and I thought they would therefore be understanding that I have a Yom Kippur deadline, which I explicitly stated to the secretary, but apparently this has not helped. I am not trying to restore our friendship. I do not want to ask too much out of her. I am just trying to get her to forgive me. That is all.

Question
I earn all the money for the household at the present time, but my wife does most of the food shopping. Very often, my wife buys food that she considers to have bought for herself. She charges it on a credit card account that we share jointly, then I pay the bills. She then complains when I eat any of ‘her’ food that she considers that she has bought for herself, even though the money I earned is paying for 100% of it. Is it considered stealing if I eat food that she considers hers, even as I am the one paying?

Question
America~ [Aleph~Mem~Resh~Quf~Hei] Woven within these letters are the following words: Emoriy~ Aleph~Mem~Resh~Yud meaning "a sayer" Amorite; Amarayah ~Aleph~Mem~Resh~ Yud~Hei meaning "Yah speaks"; amar~ Aleph~Mem~Resh Verb meaning ~ say, utter ones heart, to answer, think, boast, avouch, publish, commune, command, declare; [qara~Quf~Resh~Aleph Verb~ meaning cry out, summon, call & endow, give name to, read aloud be famous, preach]; [araq Aleph~Resh~Quf meaning earth] [qareh~Quf~Resh~Hei meaning chance, accident nocturnal pollution, unclean] [qarah~Quf~Resh~Hei~Verb~ meaning ~ build with beams like the N.Y. twin towers, encounter, befall]; [mara~Mem~Resh~Aleph Verb~meaning~ lift up self, whip rebel , lash , be filthy]; [Mare~Mem~Resh~Aleph~ means "bitterness" rebellion]; [mare~Mem~Resh~Aleph~means lord, master, of ( king) of (G-d)]; [mareh~Mem~Resh~Aleph~Hei means vision, supernatural sight, goodly to look upon, fair, mirror]; [yaraq~Yud~Resh~Quf Verb meaning ~ to spit ]; [raah -Resh~Aleph~Hei means bird of prey, American bald eagle]; [ramah~Resh~Mem~Hei ~Verb~ meaning to beguile,betray, mislead, deal treacherously, cast throw down,hurl]; [ramah~Resh~Mem~Hei meaning~ illicit worship, idolatry, facebook, twitter, media, Hollywood, pro~sports celebrities,mega churches]; [rimmah~Resh~Mem~Hei~ meaning~maggot,worm,decay]; [Horam~ Hei~Resh~Mem~means "exalted"]; [har~Hei~Resh means mountain,promotion]; [raqqah~Resh~Quf~Hei meaning temples,thinness]; [yaqar~Yud~Quf~Resh~ heavy,valuable,rare,costly, precious]; [imrah means Torah, Aleph~Mem~Resh ~Hei ]; [maraq~Mem~Quf~Resh~Verb means ~to scour, polish, bright,furbish i.e. sword]; [mriy~Mem~Resh~Yud~Aleph meaning well-fed fatted beef] [mriy~Mem~Resh~Yud~Aleph means~ rebellious,bitter] Final summation America was from its humble beginnings a nation "rooted" in religious godly principles. However,when the founding fathers "ousted out" the King James Bible and ushered in the Jefferson bible complied by Thomas Jefferson a cultural,spiritual descent into darkness began. Human trafficking seared the souls of "lily white" Americans who embraced its " vile " practices with open arms. The "sayer's" that cried liberty,justice for all became hypocrites,heretics, freethinkers guided by their own twisted,distorted hearts of hatred and disdain. Reprobate representatives governed the people, as slavery flourished and enriched the lives of the elitist few. The great "eagle" nation was born, drenched in treachery,greed, lies, pride & lust. Four hundred years of despicable atrocities have "disgraced " the face of the home of the "free" and the brave. Strange fruit, blood on the leaves, jetty black bodies hanging from poplar trees. Shall Almighty G-d not make inquisition for innocent blood? Psalm 9:12 When He makes inquisition for blood, He remembers them: He forgets not the "cry "of the humble. Moral decrepitude is the stench of this society "seethed" and " soaked" in sin. Psalm 50:21 These things thou has done and I kept silent; thou thought that I was as thyself: but I will reprove thee (America) and set them in order before thine eyes. Psalm 50:22 Now consider this ye that "forget" Elowahh, lest I tear in pieces and none to deliver. Torah has been tossed behind the backs of the people and everyone leans to their own understanding. Smooth,slippery, serpentine tongues spew out flatteries: and the heathen are knitted together with one consent. There is no "balm"(Torah) in America. Torah is medication to heal this contrite, broken world. Is the coming of Mashiach incumbent upon our obedience to Torah and giving freely to those in need, while yet elevating each soul to a higher Spiritual frequency? Also, as we are all Bet houses, which resemble an "open" house with a breached wall, is Mashiach the missing Bet wall, transforming one into a perfected Closed Mem?

Question
Why is Yom Kippur referred to as ‘Yom Tzom Kippur’ in Unetaneh Tokef? Why is it called this exclusively here but not anywhere else?